你的孩子不是你的孩子,他是生命自己的孩子,他們透過你來到這個世界,他們卻不屬於你;

 

你可以給他們你的愛,卻不能給他們你的思想,因為他們有他們自己的思想;

 

你可以提供他們身體的住處,卻不能替他們的靈魂找房子,

因為他們的靈魂住在明日之屋,那是你即使在夢中也無法到達的地方。

 

你可以努力像他們一樣,但是千萬不要要他們像你一樣,

因為生命是無法逆轉的,更不能被昨日的你所耽擱。

 

你是弓,而你的孩子是從弦上射發的生命的箭矢。

 

那射手看到了無盡路上的標靶,
於是他用神力將你扯滿,讓他的箭急馳遠射。

 

你應在射手的掌中感到歡欣;

因為他愛飛去的箭矢,也愛靜存於掌中的彎弓。

 

 

-- Kahlil Gibran, "The Prophet"

 

Your children are not your children. 

They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.


They come through you but not from you, and though they are with you yet they belong not to you.

 

You may give them your love but not your thoughts, for they have their own thoughts.

 

You may house their bodies but not their souls, for their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.

 

You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.

 

You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.


The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,

and he bends you with his might that His arrows may go swift and far.

Let your bending in the Archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as he loves the arrows that flies, so he loves also the bow that is stable.

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